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Quit complaining! 12/6/2003
Why are people complaining about not getting benefits
for free? Why would anybody join if you could see and contact
people for free? Not a way to run a business! HotMatch.com provides
a service, they collect the info, they organize it and if
you want to see it, pay for it! This is an adult "shopping"
site, and we can pick and chose who we want to talk to or respond
to. We can be picky, if we don't ...
3 Comments, 68 Views,
24 Votes
,1.77 Score
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SO MANY FAKE PROFILES. 12/6/2003
I have been exploring prfiles on HotMatch.com for a few weeks now.
I have responded to many profiles with an e-mail...only
to find that the "women" on the other end refuse
to confirm that they really are who they say they are...
I think a good portion of people who use HotMatch.com aren't actually
on here to meet people (in reality). They instead prefer
the virtual reality of NO accountablity and ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
33 Votes
,8.47 Score
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Response to "Why Pay??" 12/5/2003
Two part response here, bud:
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1. It costs MONEY to run a website and this website was put
together so someone could make money. No brainer here,
dude.
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2. You used the phrase, "to each there owe."
Do your perhaps mean, "to each, their own, "
or, more grammatically, "to each, his/her own?"
You must have been absent the day your English teacher covered ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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Single Guys and "No Responses" 12/5/2003
You single guys need to knock off the crybaby bullshit and
face the reality of this website. First, swinging is primarily
a COUPLES game. Many couples are on here to solely find/meet
other couples. If we cruise some profiles and see one that
interests us, we'll contact YOU. How simple can that
be?
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Second, no one on this site is under any obligation, morally
or legally, ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
41 Votes
,8.10 Score
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can't they read 12/4/2003
Just a rant single guys cannot read they just look at photos.We
were wondering if other couples have the same problem.We
have in our ad in caps NO SINGLE GUYS.Yet all the time we are
bombarded with messages from them wanting to meet or they
will page us when we are online on this site with im, sometimes
we have 3 or 4 guys page us when we are in a chat room. It has
gotten so bad that we ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
12 Votes
,6.16 Score
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re;;;;;, the "old" guys 12/3/2003
re;; the" old" guys and the young women that
must have some hunk, , ya right, most tell me that these
guys are mostly 2 pump chumps, , i have a great " friends
with benifits" with 2 young women 25 and 27, , im 59
very fit, in great shape , well endowed and still care about
how i look, , ive been a fireman all my life, and do 80 floors
in 16 min at the gym 4 days a week, , i love to do ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
16 Votes
,5.92 Score
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Why Pay????? 12/3/2003
I just joined HotMatch.com as a standard member. I did so in hoping
to find someone and to try out the site before I pay. As a standard
member I am unable to do anything, can't look at profiles
(not able to read) send emails...etc. I understand this
is an Adult site and most people pay. But way pay for something
if you can't see the benefits of joining. I am sure HotMatch.com
can figure a way out to verify ...
0 Comments, 27 Views,
18 Votes
,6.13 Score
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cant people read profile 12/3/2003
tired of haveint o tell people to please read profile and
see what we are looking for before you send us a reply we dont
want to hurt anyones feeling but we kno what we want and so
pleae read profile before you send a reply
0 Comments, 17 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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RE: So tired of hearing "no reply, blah blah blah" 12/1/2003
I agree that people should read the profiles and if they
don't fit then they should not send an e-mail, but there
are so many people that only have ads up to lure you to a different
site, or when you do fit what they are asking for they still
don't reply. I think the least you can do is to just send
an e-mail that says "no thanks". As for the standard
members, it's not that expensive to ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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Race incompatible but messaged anyways.... 11/30/2003
Are people fully aware that if you select a particular race
in your preferences that races unchecked will show up as
being incompatible? We receive lots of messages from users
who for some reason have our race as one they prefer not to
meet. You can find this information under "Compatibility
Score" and it's marked with a RED X.
We feel it's frustrating to receive these messages
and are ...
1 Comments, 53 Views,
13 Votes
,5.49 Score
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natural beauty ,desires,and wants 11/30/2003
you sense it, you see it, and you desire it, but how do you
approach it....the ageless question we all ask ourselves
during one period of our life or another. we either are wanting
advice, or are willing to give that advice, depending on
the cyclical maturity level we may be at. however there
is always one trait that will be able to trancend the age
barier and depending on our level of ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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To: "There is no BI": Did you get left out of a threesome? 11/30/2003
Everyone has the right to their opinion. But the person
who wrote the article entitled, "There is no BI",
is displaying fears characterized by the extreme homophobic
right-wing mentality. Should we all do it in the missionary
position for the sole purpose of procreation??? What abortion
clinic did you blow up? Are you the person who hands out pamphlets
on the street corner, telling us we ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
6 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Women who lie about their bodies 11/29/2003
As a former Silver member, and as a standard member who has
looked at the profiles of women who have sent me messages,
I have to offer one bit of advice: stop lying about your looks!
I have had enough of women who say they're "athletic"
and have love handles; their abs are hidden under three
inches of flab. "Average" I guess used to mean
neither exceptionally fit nor obviously obese, but ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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Sex and the religious right 11/28/2003
Why are there profiles on this site that claim they are looking
for a "Good, upstanding moral Christian (man/woman)",
when the headline of the site clearly states it is "The
World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site"?
Just exactly where in the above phrase is the "Good,
upstanding, moral Christian man/woman" part? We
are all adults here, and we all know the real porpose of this
site. ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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People Please! 11/27/2003
This fucking shit with trying to read someones fucking
stupid profile or email because they can't spell is
fucking pissing me off! There is a spell check on your computer
you lazy stupid fucks! But this only makes me wonder, Hmmm...why
am I bitching here? The idiots probably can't read
anyway!
0 Comments, 4 Views,
2 Votes
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Sex with one's family members 11/26/2003
Those people who have sex with close family members (or
even those who just lying about it) need to be shot. What
is more disgusting than a 20 year old doing his mother. Or
those parents who say they get it on with their own !
Anybody hear about ?!? Get a life.
2 Comments, 1094 Views,
23 Votes
,2.43 Score
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Response to Old Guys 11/25/2003
When you get a little older, you will be kicking yourself
in the Rear. The Old Guys, as you put it, are in no hurry, they
know that taking their time, using their experience, can
take a Woman where she has never been, and beyond. What keeps
most Women from ever getting there, is limiting their options,
ruling out the ones that have the experience to get them
over the top, time after time, ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
95 Votes
,9.04 Score
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Does this work or not 11/25/2003
I am curious about something and would like to know if anyone
else has experienced the same thing. First of all I am a gold
member and from time to time I respond to ads that appear
to be people that I am interested in and that have some degree
of compatibility with. In other words, we seem to match
up fairly well. I do not use one liners nor am I responding
with rude and crude messages. ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
74 Votes
,9.50 Score
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RE:Does anyone here ever respond? 11/24/2003
Hey Scott sexcrazed668 I hear you! I am a female and I get
all these lame assed invitations to be in 'their'
network! No note at my inbox and on top of all of that shit
they dont have a fuckin pic OR an album!! FUCK THAT! I do think
there are a shitload of weak assed ones that just want to
sit around and jack off to pics on a pc! Not I!! I get notes
that say I sure would love to see more ...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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RE:Why are some people on here 11/24/2003
Unfortunatley we all have the right to be on here limpdicks
and alll! I know that I have to send out ALOT of notes to get
a few and then whittle it down to maybe a keeper! Its definitley
not a site where people just flock to you. And if they do are
they your type! And then if they look as though they are your
type are they liars or genuinely looking for the same! You
got to play the game to ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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We men are IDIOTS! 11/23/2003
I'm a man, and I'm an idiot.I admit this quite
freely-I wonder how many of the other men here can admit
it? Here are a few reasons why:
We pay money to send e-mails to women who won't even
read them, let alone respond to them.
We put photos of ourselves naked, frequently in the process
of beating off in our ads-this makes all of us look stupid(and
I really doubt there are many women ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Re: Hotlists and Winks 11/23/2003
Wondering why somebody may wink at you and add you to their
hotlist, then not send you a message? Could be they are a
Standard member and have limited capability to do so. If
you're a Gold or Silver member, do some research on
the person who's done either or both, and if said person
is a Standard member, perhaps it's their way of telling
you they want YOU to send them a message. As for ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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If I say I want a picture I want a picture. 11/22/2003
Men,
If I write in my profile I want you to send a photo, please
send a photo. You see my picture and it is only fair I get to
see your picture.
0 Comments, 20 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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HOW ABOUT A CATERGORY FOR INTERRACIAL ENCOUNTERS 11/22/2003
I JUST WANT TO KNOW HOW MANY MEMBERS HERE WOULD LOVE TO SEE
A CATERGORY FOR INTERRACIAL ENCOUNTERS????IF THERE ARE
PEOPLE OUT THERE LIKE ME WHO DOES NOT WANT TO SERCH ALL OF
THE ADS JUST TO FIND THIS GROUP OF PEOPLE WANTING TO HAVE
INTERRACIAL ENCOUNTERS.I KNOW RANTS DONT MAKE SENSE BUT
I HOPE THAT THIS DOES AND WE GET ENOUGH RESPONSES TO INITIATE
SOME ACTION BY HotMatch.com. SO ALL U WOMEN AND ...
1 Comments, 45 Views,
9 Votes
,6.42 Score
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HotMatch.com SUCKS!!!! 11/22/2003
I have been a member on HotMatch.com for several years now & i've
reached the point where i'm ready to remove my ad!!!
Nothing here lately but fakes, flakes, & pitches to
join a website. The new chat setup is even more useless than
the old one, and as usual, it's full of people who are
"just here to chat". If you just "wanna
chat", go join AOL or Yahoo, & save the bandwith
for people who are ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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The New and UNimproved HotMatch.com 11/22/2003
This is crazy that now Standard Members can't view
ANY part of a profile? Then what in the world are Standard
Members for now? Just fodder for Silver and Gold Members
to pick from? This is insane. Who agrees w/Me?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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I do not know either! 11/20/2003
To reply to why some people are on here, I believe the reason
is most people, even when trying to meet people for "adult
games" bring the same hangups they have always had, race, gender, body
type, etc.Most people just cant let go, always going
to have doubt about what they are doing.Most times even
when they say they know what they want, they still dont
know!
0 Comments, 6 Views,
39 Votes
,7.06 Score
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old guys 11/20/2003
How come all the responses I get are from older men?? I am
only 19. I dont want to sleep with older men. sorry!!!!!
0 Comments, 0 Views,
55 Votes
,1.92 Score
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Why are some people on here? 11/19/2003
I have been with Adult friendfinders off and on for a few
years and i find that some people should never be here, they're
just taking up space for some people who are Really looking
for a relationship or whatever they're looking for.I
figured that i had replyed to way over 400 ads and don't
even get a not interested note or they're not sure what
they want or looking for.Is it just me or is ...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
66 Votes
,8.56 Score
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Being Called Cute 11/19/2003
What I hate more then anything is when a man views your picture
that you have sent him and his only response is cute. Puppies
and babies are cute. Obviously these men can't think
of better adjectives.
1 Comments, 405 Views,
50 Votes
,7.38 Score
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