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Treasure every meeting, for it will never recur. 一期一会
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Oral Sex, Scent and Taste of Pussy
Posted:Dec 18, 2005 7:26 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I like giving oral sex to woman because of nature of activity where ladies expose her secret garden to a man, especially for those ladis who is usually pretend that she has no interest in sexual activities..
(Well to be honest with you, I also like to get oral,,, but I can't last long, I will be very quick shooter, as soon as see ladies erotic face while she is performing..)

While I am giving oral sex, I enjoy both taste and scent. (which usually bring instant hard-on)
taste is usually little salty and some sourness, which is pleasant. (however, it is bitter just after period, which is not quite pleasant... oh, by the way, I'm not Doracura...so...)
Scent is usually like very soft cheese with some citrus fruits. (If it smell strong like blue cheese, probably something wrong....)

One day, while I was performing oral to a divorced lady, who claimed that she hadn't had sex for 6 monthes, I noticed something wrong.... uncomfortable strong smell, almost like rotten cattle fish.... I couldn't figured out what the cause was... and I felt that unpleasant scent even afte 3 days. (I get into bath tub and wash with soap every day..)
but few weeks later, I could figured out by accident... it was smell from dried out semen. (The same scent from tissue paper wiped over flow after ejaculation left in gabage box)
Fresh semen smells like chestnut flower (it's not comfortable either) but once fluid touched air and oxidized, then dried out, it will have horrible taste (as I said, rotten cattle fish)

So ladies, please take a shower after having sex, make sure all over flowed semen from pussy be washed out before you ask for oral to next man. I will wash mine too (because my penis is natural...foreskin tend to get smelly and sometime get itchy if I don't wash...)
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Difference between Pretty and Ugly
Posted:Dec 15, 2005 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I always try to find good part of each individual. (I think that is my natural skills since childhood..)

Yes, there are many pretty looking ladies here (in fact most of them are pretty, even those who doesn't have picture posted, looks young and attractive too, LO, on the other hand, some looks like drug addicted (too bad)

As I said many time, I enjoy browsing through profile, imagining what kind of people they are, most of them has some good point. That means they have pretty sprits.

Everybody has different taste, type. That's fine... other wise, everybody will look like movie star.
How you look (out side, surface) can be modified easily now a days, (through medical/surgical procedure with some expense) When I visited Body World exhibition (basically dead body and medical/anatomical research exhibition) in Science center, it is clear that those pretty or ugly expression is just made up by thin layer of skin surface. So try not be fooled by how other looks like.. (This doesn't mean I am ugly..please don't get me wrong...)

but how you feel and how you react to others can not be changed easily. I personally believe that all activities you done through out life span, moment by moment, is accumulated into your spirits precisely and permanently, and that accumulation makes difference between pretty and ugly (in long run).

I know this is basically sex site, but....
Let's be spritually pretty person.
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Definition of Fooling around and Cheating Wife....
Posted:Dec 15, 2005 7:59 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I am not Lawyer nor priest, in fact, I am just small scientist... so please don't beleive what I said here.

It is very natural for men to look nice looking ladies (in my case, I look legs, then bum then breasts) and start using his imagination. Is this activity considered to be cheating wife? Probably not...

It is also very natural for men to look all kind of porno movies/sex site on internet and masturbating (again using imagination), probably this is not considered to be cheating wife either..

It is also very natural to hug friend, co-worker when there is a full of joy. (I play mixed doubles tennis often, and whenever we win the battle, we hug each other)

Well, in strict sense, all of the above may be bad... but ladies, please understand men is not robot. So what is really considered to be cheating wife...

My final answer is, (after I spent a couple sleepless night)

As long as I keep satisfying my wife in all aspects (I've never said "No" and maintaining four to five times a week level sex a week, keep romantic atomosphere all the time), and as long as ejaculation occurs out side the vagina, I would say it's not cheating. I consider this to be extreme skin ship. In the other words, Cumming inside vagina is only allowed between the married couple or singles/detouched. (So if I use condom, I considered to be OK)

Also I declare as 'married' here honestly. If I say something else (single, separate etc..), that is considered as cheating too since that denies existance of my wife.

NOTE: By the way, the picture shown is robot made by Honda (auto maker) and his/her name is Asimo.
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Reason why I like this time of year..
Posted:Dec 10, 2005 7:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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It's the time of the year again...
Depend on people, it's Chiristmas, or it's Hanukkah..... or just year end party time...

Well, Japanese doesn't celebrate Christmas, it's not even holiday in Japan...(and don't know much about Hanukkah...) we just enjoy every occation to socialize each other. Not because of Christmas, but.. it's year end, we applause each other for doing good work (sometime celebrating survival through out tough year and hoping for better new year)
Oh by the way, we have our own version of Auld Lang Syne, sang in new years eve, just before count down.

To be honest with you,
the reason why I like this time of year is....
A lot of hug! hug! hug!
no matter where I go, there is a full of very happy feeling, so it is natural feeling to hug each other...

Oh, I like hugging...
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It's very tough to be married
Posted:Dec 9, 2005 3:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I know it is not good idea to have girl friend/have a affair for married man.
But married man some time wants to have some excitement, as if he wants to feel he is still attractive man. (If Married man just wants to have sex, probably his partner/wife is more than willing to have one or more, in most cases.., in the other side, if the man just want to release the sexual tention, he could masturbate any time..)
Some biologist said man wants to spread his DNA as many as possible... but that's not true either, since Most married man looking for affair has no intention to have extra baby.

One of the quick reply choice from this site is something like "I am only looking for single man" or "I am not interested in married man".. Oh boy, why the lady say so, even if she is looking for discreet relation...

To me, I think married man is much safer to play with... because most likely he has no disease, and most likely he knew how to handle the lady.. experience wise...

So I am proud to be married man, and in a sense, it is honest to declare myself as married man in my profile here.

Oh by the way, it is not easy to have affair, women are very sensitive to scent, so if my body has even slight scent of different perfume than my wife has,,, I will be 100% in trouble, so I have to go Gym to kill the scent before go home after a affair...

Good luck for those married man...
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Does the size matter? (Penis)
Posted:Dec 7, 2005 10:22 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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This is the classic question almost every men has, probably from stone age time...

Amazingly enough, there are many kind of penis enlargement pills available, even in Canada where the Federal Health Department has much more pickier than FDA in USA.

Well, my friend, who has kind of tiny one, decided to take 3 month supply of world #1 seller pill, which is very expensive when it's compared with any vitamin pills in the same store.
After one month, he claimed it became chabbier/thicker.... Let'me see.... mmmmmm????... I didn't notice anything different. (No we're not in that kind of relationship, we are member of the same sport club/gym and we only meet once in a while..) But I noticed his face seemed to be swollen a bit recently, so I asked him to measure blood pressure, (our gym has those cheap $100 class equipment) and we found his blooad pressure was reaching border level... Well, I don't know the relation,,,, but that's bad sign...
I knew a lot of unknown hyper tention is caused by those supplement, including unknown vitamins too.

I'd rather have natural healthy body with small one than big one with almost dead body. Think about this way.... The same is true for breast on ladies, I mean... although I am very crazy about breast and nipples, I prefer natural (size doesn't matter) than implant/fake big one.
Also think about how many percentage of life time, men use his equipment, probably less than 1% of entire life time utilize penis for sexual purpose, and often used in dark room..

My conclusion is.... if standard size condom doesn't come off while performing hard intercourse, the size is more than fine....
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First Experience with BBW (Huge 320 pounds)
Posted:Dec 5, 2005 3:26 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Each person has different characteristics, and I always respect each individual as he/she is.

The girl I met through this site warned me, before we got together, that she is huge (320 pounds), which is more than twice as me, and asked if I don't feel like doing anything to her, tell her so. I thought well, nothing impossible for me, I knew every lady has cute and beautiful side.

My first impression was, she didn't look that huge, in fact I thought she was very cute with very nice sense (she smelled very sweet). After short introduction, we both went to bed together, she turned off the light.

When I hugged her, it was obvious she was huge, I could hardly hold her... (couldn't shake both of my hands together) but I felt so comfortable about her body... very soft feeling.
When I started sucking breast, I had hard time to locate the nipple.... (she knew that's going to happened)
Afer so much oral, finally I decided to have sex with her,,, but again, I had hard time to locate the lip... (Again she expected that happen) Well, I looked like innocent man..
Because of extra meat she has, I had to keep pushing my penis, else it came out (Yes, that's also happened to me, and she gently told me so to try it again...)
It was hardest sex I've ever had... I fell sleep after one session, and I couldn't recover myself for next couple days..

My honest opinion is...
To handle BBW, you need to have a lot of energy to have intercourse (as I said, as soon as stop pushing, it will came out, pushed out by extra cushion), also probably need to have longer than average and very hard penis. (otherwise it won't reach to the point, not even entrance)

Anyway, it was wonderful experience. Hope she can call me back again.. (but I know it is unlikely....I couldn't satisfy her as I desired....)
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Wink + Honest Reply = Real Sex
Posted:Dec 3, 2005 6:45 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Whenever I received Wink, I always write something with general introduction with some picture (for standard member)

One day, I received Wink from very young black lady (20 year younger than me). Naturally I checked her profile, and found that she is looking for women for 1-on-1 sex...
Well, I could ignore her, but anyone can make mistake... so I decided to write as following

"Hello Young Lady
I understand you're looking for lady,
unfortunately I am men, therefore I can not satisfy your needs, I guess you clicked somewhere by accident, be careful from now on. Have a nice day.."

Three days later,she replied me saying she wanted to chat with me so We chat for an hour or so (asked for my penis size etc..), final word she asked me was "Bring condoms, my address is... telephone number is...., at 8 o'clock"

Yes, it sounds very kinky, also sounds very dangerous, and suspicious... but I couldn't refuse. Shortly after I went to her home (finished one cup of coffee...), we were in the bed naked together, had a good time. Next time I go, she will invite her girl friend and I will have challenge on first FMF 3-som...

It's too good to be true, since everybody here seems to look for PenPals, but this was happened last night...
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10 inches or more?
Posted:Nov 26, 2005 12:49 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I like browing through "Who's online", even though I hardly ever write e-mail to satisfy my horney desire.
One day, I found the couple who lives close to my home, and is looking for another woman or man if he has 10 inches or more... I thought what????
Yes, probably there is, in rare case, man with huge penis (who should go freak show), but I am not jealous about his size. (If I have something like that, I would apply to XXX porno movie company)
Believe it or not, even my average size, I some time has difficulty with peeing sitting position. (Penis tend to touch the toilet seat or even dipped into water..)

Oh by the way,
I have 10 inches long foot (size of men's 7 shoes)
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It's snowing, my penis start shrinking
Posted:Nov 17, 2005 4:20 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Oh, no.... It's snowing..
This is the one thing I hate to live in northern country. (Well I know Southern Ontario is way much better than in Alberta)

Fact is......
When the air is colder, penis shrinks and becomes like baby boy. (Especially after clearing heavy snow from my drive way - I finally bought the machine to move the snow, I have to easy on my back so that I can enjoy hard sex......)

On some penis enlargement method site, they said dipping penis into cold and hot water and repeat this step over and over again will enlarge the size..... I doubt that's true. If that's the fact... All Canadian men will have huge penis during winter.
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50th Wedding that I attended....
Posted:Nov 17, 2005 3:09 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I am not a politician nor famous, but I tend to be invited to wedding too often. (Last weekend, the wedding party I went to was my 50th invitation)
Since the place I live is kind of multi-cultural city, I enjoyed all kind of different wedding and reception party. (Hindu wedding was kind of cute.) And common thing is way too much food than I can eat. Especially Chinese wedding party is very long, a lot of food (including entire baby pig for each table, anything else (lobster, fish etc) is two per table)

By looking at Newly groom and bride, it reminded me of our wedding long long time ago, and the words "I do" is still fresh in my brain.
Yes, I had a lot of passion (still I hsve) and I was bad and wild, that I took my wife from her fiancee at Engagement Party held at the location 10,000Km (6,000 Miles) away from my home. (Yes, I was influenced by movie "Graduate" too much)

I want every newly wed couple to be full of passion at least at the wedding party. (I understand there is too much things to do.. but please enjoy this moment now, think about tomorrow later)
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Long Life... Happy 175 Years
Posted:Nov 15, 2005 3:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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This picture shows the oldest animal on earth.
This tortoise is brought back home by Charles Darwin from Galápagos island(whoever that is??? by some reason, here in North America, his theory is not acceptable in many school.....) on 1835, her name is Harriet (she'd been beleived as boy for a long time, so she used to be called Harry)Now she lives in Australian Zoo
And Today is her birthday.....

Can you imagine 175 Years age? I am far away from that... (I knew heart beat on tortoises are way much slower than humans, so they live longer)
During her 175 Years, she learned how to nuzzle up to zoo visitor for a neck scratch... (What a easy life it is) She is happy to eat her favorite flower as birthday gift.

Probably, I can not live that long...
Important thing is...
(Even I knew it is important to make a plan toward tomorrow is important..)

Live and Enjoy Today and Now, This morment.
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No means No, but be nice
Posted:Nov 12, 2005 8:02 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I rarely write love letter to member here even she is on the list of cupid matched (supposed to be very potential...selected by this site.. now I know cupid match is not reliable source of information...)
When I have a lot of time, I write a letter, spending a lot of time (since English is not my first language), using dictionary and trying to be so nice, not offensive.... and creative..

Yes, Even I educate myself that I have no chance (on surface), there is always slight hope (similar to lottery) somewhere in my spirit.
I've already got used to receive "No". So I am all right, not much damage to me...
But, depend on how she said, impact is different.. Let me explain

Case 1... No responce... <== I understand lady receive so many letter, so I don't blame them, but it is kind of sad... but I'm OK with this.

Case 2... Using QuickResponse option <== What a cold blooded way of saying "No", It is very deadly. I'd rather have no responce than this, at least if I don't receive any responce, I can continue to have some hope.. dreaming about dating.

Case 3... Critisizing me <== This is highly deadly impact, I can not recover from this kind of damage for a week or so.. for example "You're not my type" If someone criticised on others which he can not do much... that's bad.. example (you're too short...)

So what the good way to say "No" and doesn't harm the feeling of others.. One lady did it to me, and very nice touch.. (Of course, "No" means "No")
First check profile as soon as receive the letter (You don't have to read anything). Then wait a couple days (pretend you're seriously thinking about opportunity) Then praise others, such as saying "You have wonderful xxxx and I'd like to ooo" followed by sentence starting with "But...." (whatever realistic excuse here) and followed by kindly "Sorry" and make sure add "Good Luck!" at the end..

This way, I don't feel so bad...

Probably, I keep writing love letter, (once in a while, I saw my type... I can't resist...)
also thank-you-letter to everyone winked at me, or for those who post wonderful thought in my blog.
So, Ladies, Please be nice, men are (at least I am) naive and sensitive than you think.

Please be nice....
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