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Married and very curious about a threesome.
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Married and very curious about a threesome. Hello all. My husband and I have been considering exploring a threesome. We have always had an amazing sex life and are a very sexual couple, having sex about 2 to 4 times a week (which is impressive with in the home). We both are on board to pursue this journey but have hesitations, obviously. Unsure feelings and uncertainties on how to pursue this fantasy. Should we find an old friend we do not communicate with anymore? Someone I use to work with that I felt an attraction to? A stranger from the internet? A married man that might be in an open relationship with their spouse? So many awkward conversations to have. So, we thought we would start here with this site to maybe help with the process. I want to make certain this experience is totally focused on me and making sure I feel comfortable. I will be the one trying to satisfy two men after all, the least they could do is make sure it is all about me, LOL. FYI: My husband is not bisexual or bi-curious and I am not into that type of stuff either. I will say that I feel it is best if we move slow and make sure there is a physical, emotional, and sexual connection between us before we just jump to the end of the story. Dating, maybe some light kissing, and possibly some other things that will help build upon the experience, boosting my confidence and comfort level. I honestly do not know yet how I feel about doing this, but I want to try and see where things go. It does excite me and it does bring me joy that this excites my husband, but I am fearful of allowing another man to enter me and just how the experience will play out. To start I know we need to meet someone and have drinks and get to know them, but I was curious if there was any other pieces to this trio, suggestions or insight that can be provided on how to pursue this dream, or any information that we need to watch out for? Any stories of your own experiences and how they did or did not work out. We both are a little nervous about exploring this threesome, but know it has the potential to be an amazing experience. For the sake of my comfort level, we decided that inviting another man into the mix would be best for our first time. We have talked about size and I am a small woman who does not enjoy a large dick (sorry guys). I would prefer to find someone who is around six inches or less. It would be nice if his looks were similar to my husbands, but honestly I just need to feel an attraction. I am sure you all understand that. Any help or information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks all! WBCO625110 |
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Well I'm also new to the exploration of a threesome I wanna have a fmf or a MFM and I prefer that her Man is straight as I am . Maybe we can chat to see if we can help each other Licknb4dickn
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Your best bet is to always work on building a friendship with the third person. Get to know them and talk honestly about what happens if things don't work out and what you want sexually as well. Set standards and stick to them. Explain to them that if anything happens, nothing comes between you and your husband. In the end, it's all about all three parties being honest with their expectations, etc. If you ever want to talk, I'm on the IM here.
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Sounds like a plan to me  If Im not here, you can also always reach out to me on K1K (blacksailsthesunset) or SC (trumpshair82) if you have either of those. Whatever is easiest for you two!
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4/30/2019 10:27 am |
To meet, talk, and get to know each other is always possible. Always three, never two, and no one outside of the three can be told without the permission of all three.
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I have never done any threesome, but I am in an open relationship with my wife for around 13 years now. I always feel more comfortable with everyone being open and straightforward. I am glad that you put out expectations and concerns early. Both guys should be focused upon you, but the extra third, needs to acknowledge and respect that your husband is supporting this. My wife has met several that try to lessen me in her eyes. So keep an open communication with your husband. I have seen you two on line occasionally, and thought you two looked nice, but I am afraid that I do not meet your preferences as I am rather long and thick, but if you have any questions that I might be able to help with, please ask. Visit my blog if you want to at thax013 and thank you very much!
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Hello. Hope that you two were to able to find the answers to the questions so many first-timers have. Don't get discouraged, have fun and remember to be open and honest with each other. You're a beautiful couple, best of luck! Will.
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4/12/2021 12:33 pm |
Hey there! I can’t email or IM y’all with their new restrictions. Find me on kick (Niceassguyatx).
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