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The Search Continues...  

iedude00 37M
9 posts
9/3/2011 9:37 am
The Search Continues...

Well I guess I'll get into the more serious type of posts now. It's actually been rather difficult to try and talk to people on sites like this. Sometimes I get a response, but even other places its the same tune. The saying goes, when your not looking for someone that person will find you. Well, I've never been the wait and see type of person. But now it's kind of discouraging that I'm wasting all this time and energy searching with pretty much nothing to show for it. It seriously is starting to wear down my happiness. Blah blah blah sob story right? I'm sure there's probably a million posts on here about the same thing. But what is it that most women on here look at when someone sends them a message aside from pictures? Maybe I need some tips? I mean I think I do okay, I mention things from profiles to make it clear I did actually read it, I'm polite, try to keep good grammar. But evidently that doesn't do anything.

gottaring 52F
15850 posts
9/3/2011 10:54 am

 You're already doing the most important thing: reading the profile and referencing it your message. If she asks for face pics, send them with your first message, etc.

So...what's the catch? Well, I hesitate to say this, but since you asked, I'm gonna suggest that you perhaps change your profile picture. Don't get me wrong, as far as penises go, you clearly have no problems in that department, lol. This isn't about YOUR penis, just pictures of penises in general. A lot of women out here aren't too crazy about those types of pics, so, in lieu of a face pic, it you have a chest shot or even a full dressed body shot, you might want to try that.
When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


iedude00 37M
8 posts
9/3/2011 12:16 pm

 Thanks! I never thought about the picture thing. It makes a lot of sense now that you said that and I'm thinking about it. See that's what I'm talking about. It helps a lot when someone outside of the "situation" suggests something. Thank you. I'll have to do something about the picture.


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