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Thank you but I am not interested.
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Thank you but I am not interested. As most of my HotMatch.com friends noticed, now I am silver member, means I can send E-mail to whomever I want to be with.... Oh, please don't misunderstand me... I almost decided to quit here, (I feel I had enough) and that's the main reason to become silver member by using those points accumulated in past before quit. You know what? it is much better than being standard (free) member, but problem is, by browsing through other profiles and pictures, I become too horny... and it gives me illusion as if it is easy to meet others. (look at some of the profile, it's so sounds desperate (and that's very sad) Yes, I do respect there ideal person... OK, so I got a little bit horny, and I decided to send some nice E-mails with some sweet wording, to similar age females and couples. (I even sent "Happy Birthday") But....... One female is obviously so spoiled so badly, and she even doesn't know how to communicate to real man. one lady replied "Thank you but I am not interested." <=== It is not even her words, all she did was clicking mouse once.. You know what... once I received that kind of robot, cold blooded message, I started seeing her as very ugly.. (Yes, ugliness is came from bone marrow, even after boiled well, still there) Oh, please, don't do that to me... (or any of nice guys) Lady should realize/understand/consider that male is putting a lot of effort and time to write sentences, since male is usually not good at literature class. |
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9/21/2010 11:38 pm |
tell me about it..Its important to convey the message across and most times its not whats in the message but what transpires after the first few messages and thats how i/we meet. I agree about the communication part and i like that alot too...you get to know the person better and feel them and make them comfortable before meeting...but like you..i have and will always be nervous in first meetings...and believe me when i say that 80% of my first meets have been very physical that end up being sexual in the end. No brags just facts. ..in all the years since i been on here on and off [2005 to present]i have encountered very shallow and superficial members on here.The worst ones ask for pics when they post none of themselves and then make up stories and excuses instead of coming clean. I am glad to have found my true partner and we have been together for over 4 years running..and we share everything...our encounters , ours fantasies and each other..she is single and bi and more a woman and a wonderful lover that is unmatched compared to all the ones in my past...i can also relate to you benefiting from being on this site...because i too feel the same...luckiest man on here
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3sumbicple, my good friend, and probably happiest couple whom I met so far, right on, at least, those who received e-mail, should read E-mail, his/her/their profile, blogs (if there is any), and posting on groups, that will give a quite a good feeling what sender is look like, feel like, sounds like... I try to show respect to any E-mail sender, because I am sure, she or they (in some case, even from bi/bi-curious male)spent a lot of time and effort to make some decision before sending E-mail. (Even it is only one line, saying "I am interested in.." or "We think we're looking for the same thing, let's meet") I fully understand it is not easy to start conversation to any stranger, that's why I have to be very careful not to harm feeling of others.
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