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Blogs > violetshade > Shades of violet

A Friendly Suggestion  

violetshade 48F
25 posts
6/20/2015 4:25 pm

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6/6/2020 1:21 pm
A Friendly Suggestion

So I've been on (and off) the site for a while and one thing remains a constant. There's plenty of activity which requires very little investment. What do I mean by that? Well, it's very easy to "flirt" or "hotlist" my profile, or send a friend request - it's a just a click of a button. If you actually want to catch my attention then I expect a lot more from you.

I've read plenty of men's profiles [only interested them ] and I see so many putting little to no effort in writing anything of substance. And don't get me started on the ones without any photos! #smh

I don't believe in writing a novel, but if I can't get a general idea about you and what makes you different or someone I'd like to talk to then I won't bother responding to you. It's basic math really... whatever you put into something is exactly what you'll get back!

99looking 60M
186 posts
6/20/2015 4:54 pm

 it's not that I don't wish to post a pic, it's the possibility of some rogue member not respecting the rules and passing on a profile. I know, a certain amount of hypocrisy with me saying that, particularly as a standard, non picture bearing member ~ sorry.


violetshade replies on 6/20/2015 5:15 pm:
I'm glad you recognize the hypocrisy. *evil grin*

I've never really worried about people stealing my photos, but then again they aren't x-rated.

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